following right course
Maybe it takes the same amount of time to finish dismantling the "I'm concerned about what others think of me... mental model" that you acquired by around age 20 and become a Live by your values by age 40.
relevance
Fear of not being appreciated
Living by [My Values
values
Evaluation by others
evaluation
desire for approval
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